Erotic humiliation is the consensual use of psychological humiliation in a sexual context, whereby one person gains arousal or erotic excitement from the powerful emotions of being humiliated and demeaned, or of humiliating another. The humiliation need not be sexual in itself.

Humiliation with John and I has always been a very key part of our play time.  John craves the humiliation.  Most often, it is me teasing him about  his pathetic dick. He is force to do some activities that help to drive the humiliation.  Humiliation play can however be taken to a point where it becomes emotionally or psychologically distressing to one or the other partner, especially if it is public humiliation.

The person being humiliated is often called a bottom, and the person who humiliates them is often called the top, (though these are standard terms used in general dominant/submissive role play and are not specific to humiliation interests) or if female, sometimes humiliatrix. Other common names are slave or sub/submissive for the bottom, and Master/Mistress or Dom/Domme for the top.

There are many scenarios which may be considered as giving rise to sexual humiliation. Some scenarios may be based on verbal abuse and others on physical aspects.

Verbal aspects might include:

• Small penis humiliation,    This is one area John and I have excelled at.  I do know how to slam him with words.
• Verbal belittlement, Insults and verbal abuse, Mockery, and ridicule. Degrading references, slurs   Pathetic little loser boys need to hear how much of a disappointment they are to others.
• Being scolded like a child.  If your body makes you appear to be a child then that is how you should be treated.
• Having to ask permission for everyday activities such as going to the toilet, spending money or eating. I am in total control, everything centers around me. I should always be the one you ask permission of, for anything you do in your life.
• Forced flattery, such as agreeing that every decision that the dominant makes is wise, correct, and justifiable, while additionally praising the dominant's physical and personality traits. Praise me, worship me, let me know you understand my value is so much greater than yours.
• Reduction to Human animal role play or human pet, referring to these individuals as pet, dog, girl, bitch, or making them eat and drink from pet food and water bowls. You are my pet. I own you and you owe me.
  While the words below are common words used to humiliate... I go much further but you will need to call to hear those things said to you.
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  Inferior/ Worthless	Male dog	Sissy/Sissy Slut	Worm
  Slut/Slut Boy	Bitch		Boy toy
  Wimp/Pansy/Weakling	Girlie Boy	Cum sucker	Panty Boy

Physical and tangible aspects might include:

• Ejaculating, spitting or urinating on the bottom's body, especially the face. Everything that flows from me is good and you should welcome my gift of spitting on your loathsome self.
• Performance of menial tasks or abusive workload, such as cleaning the floors with a toothbrush. But it is through the menial tasks that you find contintment.
• Frequent, mandatory performance of sexual services for the dominant,  without expectations of reciprocal acts or intercourse.  Why would you be thinking of yourself? I am the one you should devote your time to.
• Detailed accountability and control, as to time spent or activities done, including list of jobs to do, precise directions as to how the housework is to be performed, and exactly how to act and behave. This includes displays of subservience, such as lighting cigarettes, walking a pace behind the dominant, only speaking when spoken to, kneeling or prostrating in front of the dominant when expecting orders, eating only after others or on the floor, low status place to sleep, and a wide variety of body worship activities such as kissing or licking the dominant's feet, boots, buttocks, anus, vulva, etc. to express acknowledgment, subservience, shame, or even positive emotions such as happiness or excitement. Do it my way!!!
• Suppressed freedom of movement and/or privacy. This may include never being able to leave the room in which the dominant is present without permission, having the dominant watch while the slave or submissive uses the toilet, being forbidden to leave the house or 'dungeon' in general for the duration of slavery or servitude, etc. If you accept my authority, my leadership then there will be no problems.
• Detailed punishments for a variety of 'infractions' or misbehavior, such as having to stand in a corner facing a wall for several hours, flogging or whipping, reduced rations, or forced exercise. Spanking, slapping, whipping, restraint or other BDSM activities such as cock and ball torture (CBT). John and I do some of this but I do not use my husband for my whipping post. I do believe if you don't do what is expected of you then you must suffer the consequences.
• Prohibitions or restrictions on clothing, even in public. For men, a particularly powerful sense of humiliation may be achieved through forced feminizing or cross-dressing. John is rarely out of his panties these days.
• Use of chastity belts or other means of erotic sexual denial.
• Wearing of external signs of "ownership", such as a collar.
• Having friends, family or strangers aware of or witnessing one's treatment (i.e., public humiliation).
• Erotic objectification, where the bottom is cast in the role of an object, such as a footstool.
• Embarrassment.
• Male forced anal penetration using dildos, anal plugs or similar objects.
• Cuckoldry, taking on a third party lover to humiliate the bottom as an expression of the relationship between the top and the bottom. In this scenario, the bottom typically is allowed only to witness, and not invited or permitted to participate.
• Having to ask permission to orgasm during sex or masturbation.
• Forced to wear a gag or restraints on the body. I love having John tied down to a chair and not allowed to touch while he watches me with another man.
• Financial domination, where usually a submissive (or money slave) will give gifts and money to a dominant. The relation may often be accompanied by other practices of BDSM, but there may be virtually no further intimacy between the individuals.
• Forced masturbation in a humiliating manner.
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John and I have played in most of the above areas in some form or another. I have talked with and helped many other cuckolds so I have lots of stories and experiences.  I would love to talk to you in more detail about them.

I do most of my work through calls but I do offer other services.
Online humiliation

Online humiliation is the desire to be seen in a sexually embarrassing context via the internet. This practice allows the submissive to seek fetish partners from across the world.

Common methods of online humiliation include:

• Embarrassing photographic or video assignments for submissives
• The requirement for submissives to keep online journals, detailing personal information such as masturbation frequency and details
• Verbal abuse
• Publicly bidding for items that reveal their fetishes

These practices can be conducted via chat, webcam, e-mail, BDSM contact websites.